HEEE. Well, you know, in theory I find it all sexy, but I'm sure that, confronted with a real life atom bomb-builder, I'd have some sort of moral crisis of OMG IS IT ETHICAL TO TALK TO THEM. OMG WHY DO I WANT TO KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT HOW BOMBS WORK.

does that mean Rhodey knew a different guy at MIT?

Huh. Well, yeah. In fact, would Rhodey have turned out the dominant personality in the relationship? I am too hungry to think beyond how that would be neat. And hot.