I think you've nailed it exactly about Q/O. Part of the story about them is that they never connect, and fr all the bitching that I do about those pleasure slave fics or the ones with Qui-Gon raping Obi-Wan or TEH JEDI SEXX RITUALS, the fact that they're so prevalent says worlds about just how hard it is to get the two of them to do the nasty. :/

And it helps with HH/WB that they practically HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER IN CANON. :D

Again, by the way. I'm really looking forward to the meta and, really, anything from your giant amazing fantastic brain.